Just Plain Bill
Does SIZE really matter?
Throughout each
day, we hear that “size does matter” in all kinds of advertisements, medical
claims, or jokes of all degrees of acceptability.
Each starts with
the assumption that bigger is always better. To me, it all depends on context.
Life’s experiences and circumstances have taught me that size does matter, but that bigger is not always better.
I
imagine we all interpret the comment on our own terms, from a perspective based
on our personal circumstances. Bigger must seem better to someone “vertically-challenged”
and not big enough to reach something. What about something cerebral such as
the "size" of our vocabulary? How can bigger be better if someone on
the receiving end of the vocabulary doesn’t understand the sender’s message?
How about a technological skill set? There are certainly times when a
specialist is preferred over a general professional. How critical is the
relative size of our family? Our group of friends? Our circles of influence?
As I
reflect on the term “size” in
relation to my family – one sibling, my mother, and an absent father by the
onset of my teenage years – it’s natural to ponder what my life would have been
like if the size of my family had
included many siblings and close relatives. I’d like to imagine each would have
benefitted me in some way, even if by something as simple as expanding my
perceptions of the world and the personalities in it.