Saturday, July 13, 2013


Just Plain Bill

“Which wife did you love the best?”

When my youngest daughter was three, we were walking three blocks back from the neighborhood donut shop. When we stopped at the first corner, she turned and asked me the following question: “Daddy, which wife did you love the best?”

Well, since I was now married for the third time (she was the offspring of my second marriage) I wondered what the most sensitive and truthful answer would/could/should be. I hoped to take time to think of just the right answer…but you know the patience level of a three-year old. 

Trying my best to distract my daughter by commenting on a passing dog – she loves dogs – I came up with the following: “The one to whom I was married at the time was the one I loved most.”

My daughter paused, thought my reply through for just a minute, and then took up interest in that dog that had given me a few seconds to think. The question never came up again.

Phew!

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