justplainbil

Just Plain Bill

The recording of my legacy begins…

When the end of the year holidays roll around, thoughts often turn to family or friends or relationships. At this time of my life, as I gracefully move through my “fourth quarter,” questions are emerging of what type of legacy I would leave when my life was over. I know the reality is that we are all building our so-called legacy with every decision we make throughout our life.

From time to time, I’ve read about leaders or prominent figures discussing what their legacy might be – what they’ll be remembered for. I don’t consider myself a fit in either the “leaders” or “prominent figures” category. I suppose I read about others because I’m curious how they define their legacy. When I consider what I might be remembered for, I immediately think of my children – my older daughter Karen, my son Carl, and my younger daughter Jessica.

I have been blessed with three children, the oldest off which has grown into an awesome mother of four perfect grandchildren, a loving and caring wife, a leader of a church music and educational program, and an involved parent of her children’s schools. 

My first child defined me as a parent and as a man. She changed my life. Her arrival brought all the joy, trepidation, wonder, hope, doubt, and fears that I carried living life…and I was living life in far different ways than before. My thoughts and actions were never to be the same, always to be defined by the title of “father.”

I struggle to find the perfect words to describe the happiness and pride I continue to feel as the father of Karen Ann Willis.

Dear Daughter,

You make the coming of a new year most joyous with your smile, your laugh, and your incredible commitment to service. Thank you.

Love,

Dad

(Coming in future posts, more about Karen, Carl, and Jessica.)